1. Matchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match. – Don’t be afraid of going to a matchmaker. There’s nothing wrong with you. You may be extremely busy and need the extra support. Always make sure that the matchmaker you find is reliable and skilled.

2. Internet at your service. – There are various types of online dating services, but nothing can beat a good ol’ fashioned face-to-face dating, which is why if you’re considering professional services, a matchmaker is one to go to.

3. Finding someone under challenging circumstances. – Internet dating services are great places to meet people who have special attributes to them that make it difficult to meet men in daily life.

4. Out of bounds – Don’t be shy about venturing out to another city to find your match. You never know…

5. Put it in writing. – Personal ads can still be an option for you. However, remember that it is very public as well, ironic as that may sound.

6. Fast forward to speed dating. – Speed dating could be something that you might try out. However, keep your expectations low about what connections you might make in those boot-camp like meetings.

7. The cream in your coffee – café dating – Café dating is very popular among young singles who hang out in cafes a lot. They are quite innovative, and you may find it fun.

Bonus tip: Picture perfect – Don’t be a case of “she-didn’t-look-like-her-picture.” Don’t use glamour shots or old pictures. Look good in your picture without looking overdone or over-airbrushed.

Wow! With so many options out there and so many ways that things can go wrong, what am I going to do? That’s probably what you’re thinking right now, but you know what, it doesn’t have to be complicated. Consult a matchmaker if you get really dogged down by all these methods of trying to find Mr. Right. Just remember that your charm is your number one weapon, dating service or no dating service.